15 May 2009

In which all is revealed in the world's most scattered post

Back in January, I wrote a post about why I was not ready to move back home to Oregon. One of my main concerns about moving back was a lack of jobs in the publishing industry. Commenter Ann Ominous posted a link to a job at Reed College. I checked it out. Seemed too good to be true. Reed was looking for a Managing Editor, someone to supervise the staff of people who are responsible for all print communication that leaves the college, someone who could also do some hands-on editorial work.

Um, hi, I'd be really good at that.

So I sent in my resume.

And guess what? I guess it wasn't too good to be true, because three and a half months later, that job is mine. Ann, I don't know where you live, but if there's any chance I could take you out for dinner, let me know. It's no exaggeration to say that you changed my life.

The interview process was long; I did three phone interviews and then went out for a campus visit. I love the people I met and will be working with, I love the campus, and I think I will love the job. I know I will love living near my family, and I know it will be hard to say goodbye to Boston.

I've been consumed with the idea of this job and the process of getting it since I sent in my resume via overnight mail way back in late January. It's the reason I've been posting less—it's all I've been able to think about, and I didn't feel like I could blog about it until I had a firm yay or nay. Getting that firm answer took way longer than I expected it took, and, too be fair, way longer than Reed wanted it to. In any case, I got the yay late last week, but there were a bunch of folks I needed to tell in person before I could post about it, and the very celebratory Florida trip interfered with getting the word out. But the word is now out: Oregon, here we come!

For the sake of myself and anyone in my life who has experienced significant hardship, I've often wished that there were a check and balance system controlling the events of our lives. When a really sucky thing happens, I feel like it would be nice to be able to count on a really wonderful thing happening to balance it out. (Of course, when a wonderful thing happens, you hardly want to be waiting for the awful to come as its counterweight, but . . . clearly, my system needs some refinements.) I confess that since John died, part of me has been waiting for some unexpectedly wonderful turn of events to befall Maddie, Riley, and me. This job is it. Nothing can make up for John's death, of course, but I'm still pinching myself to make sure I didn't dream this situation up. Job in my field? Check. In the city in which I want to live? Check. Amazing benefits? Check. Relocation package? Check.

And get this: I got laid off on Wednesday. Doesn't life work in mysterious ways? Now I have time to prep for our move, which is nice because HOLY CRAP there is a lot to do to get ready to move cross-country. So far I have:
  • talked to my realtor about a strategy to move my condo (read: lower the effing price even more, sigh)
  • arranged for all of our medical records to be sent to OR
  • booked our flights to OR
  • gotten quotes from three movers
  • picked up a bunch of boxes
I have a long way to go. I guess it will all get done somehow. At least now I can blog about it. I've felt so deceitful!

Who's moved cross-country? Any good moving tips? Last time I moved, all my stuff fit in my car. That's just not true anymore. I'm thinking of using PODS, or some similar service, as it's much cheaper than traditional movers. Experiences—good or bad—with that? All advice appreciated. You guys know how much I love to steal the ideas of others!

Confidential to Portland bloggers: We should start planning a meetup!

Confidential to Idol fans: Kris is in the finals?! KRIS?!?! This might be my last season as an Idol fan.

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Claroux said...

CONGRATULATIONS! I am thrilled for you and your kiddos!!! My Dad moved from NJ to New Orleans in the Fall and he used PODS. He was VERY happy with it. And it was SOOO much cheaper than traditional movers. Of course, you have to do alot of the work yourself - but in some situations that's not such a bad thing. Plus - the POD was here in NJ for a week and then in LA for a week so he had plenty of time to pack and unpack. GOOD LUCK! I can't wait to read as your new adventure unfolds!

shmo said...

I read your post open-mouthed and smiling (if both are possible at the same time!). How AWESOME for you guys! Many, many congratulations!!! Alas, no great moving tips (our biggest was from PA to Dallas), but am seriously thrilled for you, my virtual friend! One side note - Kris Allen hails from my little ol' town of Conway, so even though I'm not much of an Idol fan, it's great to see a local in the spotlight! (And that, by all accounts, he's a genuinely nice guy.)

Twangy said...

I wish you all the best with this new chapter in your life. Oh, it's so nice when things work out!

Laurel said...

congratulations! my only real tip is Amtrak shipping, which for my East-West move is going to cost $67 for the first 100 pounds, then $0.56 per pound. They palletize your stuff and then it takes about 6 days to get cross-country, and then you have 3 days to pick it up before they start charging you (by the box!) for storage. Doesn't work for furniture, but is a dirt cheap way to ship everything else.

Lady Mondegreen said...

I've moved cross-country. Actually I have moved from Mexico to somewhere in the US, then cross-country from one coast to the other and then another move back to Mexico. So, I feel like an authority in the matter. I have used PODS and I definitely recommend it. (Actually Boston was one of the cities I moved to and from). Feel free to email if you have any questions about moving cross-country with kids.

Alexis said...

Congratualtions! The Reed campus is SO pretty. You might like to know that it's a gorgeous day here in Portland today - almost hot (by our standards). What a great time of year to be moving out!

I moved cross-country to get here as well. I didn't us PODS, although I know many folks who have, namely because my apartment in Atlanta was on a very busy street and there was nowhere for them to drop it off. Price may have played into it, but I don't remember.

In the end, I drove out in a 27' Penske over a period of four days. My cat was lulled into a sort of vibration-induced trance somewhere in Utah, and I thought I had killed her. I can't imagine such a drive with toddlers! If you do somehow end up in a DYI situation I DO recommend buying the "everything is covered" insurance. I got too close to a dumpster full of metal poles in Missouri and tore a gash clear through the side of the truck. You could look in and check out my stuff (fortunately it wasn't big enough to get a hand in and grab anything).

I would also recommend not transporting any dainty-ish fabrics that way. I had a few silk tops and such that shrunk in the days spent in the July heat...

To echo others' advice: packing is crucial. The way you put everything into the PODS can make a big difference in how it all fares in transit.

Good luck!

Angela said...

Hurray! I am so very, very happy for you and the twins. You are so right, things happen in really mysterious ways and end up working out. I hope all goes well with the packing and still keeping my fingers crossed that the condo sells.

Alexicographer said...

Wow. Congratulations. How very exciting!

Unknown said...

what fantastic news. You deserve it. Moving isn't as bad as I have feared, (we moved when my son was 1.5, 2.5 and a small move at 3.--he did great).

Anonymous said...

Congratulations. I don't have time to read all the comments but after moving cross country with young kids, I would heartily recommend sending a few UPS boxes with things you really need those first few weeks. Some clothes, paperwork you do not want in your luggage and even some photo albums or negatives (we had stuff stolen out of the moving van; insurance repaid us but it was not the same).
Send it UPS and insure it.

Good luck to you!
Liz

Anonymous said...

What!?! No pictures of Maddie and Riley as beach bums!?!

cindy w said...

I am so, so happy for you. Seriously, I teared up reading this & I don't even know you. That's awesome.

We moved cross-country (from Washington state to North Carolina) last year with an 18 month-old and 2 cats. I don't know if I have any great moving tips, except that if you're letting the movers take your car, opt for the extra damage insurance. (I learned that one the hard way.)

Meika said...

Wow, Snick, that's FANTASTIC!!! How about that timing?? Wow. It sounds like you're being well-taken-care-of. I'm so glad!

~ Jolene said...

Congrats Snick!!! SO.HAPPY.FOR.YOU!!!!!!

Tracy said...

Congratulations! What fantastic news! The universe works in mysterious ways, eh?

I was going to endorse ABF U-Pack, but I see I'm not the first! I'll just add my positive experience, I suppose. I moved from NY to FL and used them, it was great. The only thing is that it's much easier if you have someone to help load and unload. I had help loading, but not unloading, which was hard.

Kim said...

Congratulations!!! I'm so happy for you and your family!!!

Roads said...

I know that feeling. It all goes to crap, and you think --

Well, we could do with a little bit of luck around here.And here it is. Fantastic!

I'm delighted for you, and -- what's more -- you'll appreciate the unexpected gifts that life can bring so much more now because you understand how hard life can be as well.

Take life as it comes, and be grateful -- if there's a handful of important learnings from your experience, that's high amongst them.

Hooray!

Beloved said...

I'm SO happy for you and the twins and your family in Oregon. I know so well how awesome it is to live near family (even when I don't like the location). All the best with the move and the start of your new job!

kate said...

Congrats!!! and best of luck to you, Maddie and Riley! You deserve this!

Glory Laine said...

Welcome back to Oregon!

Molly said...

You deserve this!

Jennifer said...

Oh my gosh I'm so happy for you! (I never comment but I read regularly and am a fellow twin mom.) Congratulations!!!

Roads said...

Excellent news. Enjoy looking forward to your move and new job!

Anonymous said...

Congrats to you, Snickollet! Maddie and Riley are going to love having family close by to dote on them. Talk about the fates aligning!

RaJen said...

that is GREAT NEWS!!!

Julia said...

I've been so behind on my reader, that I am only now reading this. So happy for you! But so sad to have you go. Any chance we can meet up before you are off? I'll feed you... :)

Jane Roper said...

Fantastic news -- you deserve this! Sorry to see you leaving the area, but so happy for you for this next phase of your life. Can't wait to hear how everything goes.

winecat said...

Congratulations! Talk about great timing. A job you actually want, in a city that you actually want to live and family nearby. You scored!

A friend of mine used Pods when she moved from Canada, just be sure to carefully watch them pack your stuff.
The group she had didn't have much respect for her antique furniture.

Sarah in Ottawa said...

Late to the party, but I just wanted to say how happy I am for you and the kids. Hooray for Oregon!

Jamie said...

Cheers to the West Coast! The more whip-smart ladies we have around here, the better. Glad you'll be here.

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