tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post7021167383880380937..comments2024-03-20T01:12:06.791-07:00Comments on Snickollet: Six MonthsSnickollethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14123630374052898460noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-41928908342397950572007-10-14T18:49:00.000-07:002007-10-14T18:49:00.000-07:00I am thinking of you. Take care of yourselfI am thinking of you. Take care of yourselfAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-78554479144519585562007-10-14T18:07:00.000-07:002007-10-14T18:07:00.000-07:00I think I am posting for the first time but I'm no...I think I am posting for the first time but I'm not sure - I have been reading for quite a while.<BR/><BR/>I lost my daughter and while everyone's grief path is different, I did want to share that some of the hardest times for me were in the 6 months to 18 months period. Before that while the emptiness was awful, it was sort of like there was a numbness that was protective in its own way. But asAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-73223322502636013102007-10-13T16:58:00.000-07:002007-10-13T16:58:00.000-07:00Coming in late but thinking of you and hoping you ...Coming in late but thinking of you and hoping you have something nice (or even just something distracting) planned for the weekend. Maddie is probably just waiting to be asked to give one of those gorgeous kisses?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-71566163412258050602007-10-13T11:15:00.000-07:002007-10-13T11:15:00.000-07:00Another first time poster; found you from Julia's ...Another first time poster; found you from Julia's site.<BR/><BR/>I understand the experience of grief getting worse as time goes on, rather than getting better, though our experiences were vastly different overall. I will say that in my case, it ebbs and flows, making it possible to deal with. While the waves aren't any less overwhelming, I have developed ways to deal with them better, which in Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-87697386720840716102007-10-12T20:07:00.000-07:002007-10-12T20:07:00.000-07:00late with my comment, but just wanted to send good...late with my comment, but just wanted to send good wishes. i'm really sorry for your loss.Sylviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03977168100697698429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-74551458008406476892007-10-12T16:52:00.000-07:002007-10-12T16:52:00.000-07:00Yeah, anniversaries are very, very hard. I wish I ...Yeah, anniversaries are very, very hard. <BR/><BR/>I wish I could stop by and help with the twins, make you dinner and sit and hear some John stories...<BR/><BR/>It took at least 7 years before I wasn't impacted by each anniversary. My sister called me in September for the 10th anniversary of Mom's death. The amazing thing to both of us was that the anniversary hadn't impacted us emotionally. OTRgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12433339525588500502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-83074699512635373492007-10-12T16:43:00.000-07:002007-10-12T16:43:00.000-07:00i'm late again, but thinking of you and sending yo...i'm late again, but thinking of you and sending you more virtual hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-26740869455979250252007-10-12T14:42:00.000-07:002007-10-12T14:42:00.000-07:00We don't even know each other and I have tears in ...We don't even know each other and I have tears in my eyes for you. I wish i could make things better for you.Kristinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15401725929395230941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-70090577428094702362007-10-12T14:20:00.000-07:002007-10-12T14:20:00.000-07:00big hugsbig hugskimberly/tippytoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14202766525370822313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-53680391424153382007-10-12T12:07:00.000-07:002007-10-12T12:07:00.000-07:00Oh, this breaks my heart for you. Lots of love and...Oh, this breaks my heart for you. Lots of love and strength to you...and many more runs that fill you with confidence and joy. <BR/><BR/>~MishaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-34345223038221240092007-10-12T11:43:00.000-07:002007-10-12T11:43:00.000-07:00I second, third and fourth what everyone above me ...I second, third and fourth what everyone above me said. I hope you're able to feel everyone's good thoughts...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-33328316536994927972007-10-12T08:43:00.000-07:002007-10-12T08:43:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry I didn't read yesterday. I was stuck ...I'm so sorry I didn't read yesterday. I was stuck in sales meetings all the live long day. A day late but still here to say that you are always in my thoughts...not just on the tough days. I hope you were able to make it through okay. I wish there was more I could say. Hugs to you and the kiddies...~ Jolenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17986515639113108485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-65982154346217996682007-10-12T06:17:00.000-07:002007-10-12T06:17:00.000-07:00Thinking of you, especially today. I am not sure i...Thinking of you, especially today. I am not sure it gets easier but it gets different (less shocking, maybe?). Hugs to you and the kids. I hope you can sneak a little time for yourself and your thoughts. Take care. I'm so sorry, Snick.tree town galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07878804287937293489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-42896458521753848532007-10-12T03:20:00.000-07:002007-10-12T03:20:00.000-07:00I am a first time poster too.I really feel for you...I am a first time poster too.I really feel for you and want to send you a really big hug. . life is so not fair sometimes.Your husband left behnd the strongest love and will always be with you.My husband has mouth cancer so I know what you have been through.God Bless all of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-28475223912688633202007-10-11T22:39:00.000-07:002007-10-11T22:39:00.000-07:00I can't imagine. Sending a hug your wayI can't imagine. Sending a hug your waysoralishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08874975328481113933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-19078186509408165212007-10-11T21:02:00.000-07:002007-10-11T21:02:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry you're having a bad day. That really...I'm so sorry you're having a bad day. That really is a tough milestone for you. Just know that we are all here for you to vent to and that we all send you hugs, happy thoughts, and computer brownies. I'm so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-51025629453342320112007-10-11T20:49:00.000-07:002007-10-11T20:49:00.000-07:00I've no experience with losing a husband but I los...I've no experience with losing a husband but I lost my mum 3 weeks before my twins were born. And, it was dreadfully, dreadfully hard. I often felt the pain was unbearable. And now--6 years later--even though I miss her a lot I can breathe. So, it does get "easier" not "easy." <BR/><BR/>But there are still triggers when I think, "I'd love to talk to her again for just one day." And I think that'sAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-90935355708581673082007-10-11T20:35:00.000-07:002007-10-11T20:35:00.000-07:00Snickollet, I am sorry. Today is an anniversary ...Snickollet, I am sorry. Today is an anniversary for me, too - my mother's birthday. She died twelve years ago, Oct 14. I know you feel alone right now, and I understand. If it is any help to you, please know that many of us know heartbreak and know how it feels to long for someone we cannot have back - and our hearts are with you.Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08506536350115105742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-17424383753194433512007-10-11T18:34:00.000-07:002007-10-11T18:34:00.000-07:00(((snickollet)))(((snickollet)))Liz Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469435277058701080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-87079577270877882932007-10-11T17:56:00.000-07:002007-10-11T17:56:00.000-07:00I don't know how you do it. I just know that you d...I don't know how you do it. <BR/><BR/>I just know that you do.<BR/><BR/>Sending love from Virginia.Mouthy Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13390913450937641605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-25337916296897859882007-10-11T17:09:00.000-07:002007-10-11T17:09:00.000-07:00Nothing really to add... except that I'm thinking ...Nothing really to add... except that I'm thinking of you today...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-37162291956612494172007-10-11T16:40:00.000-07:002007-10-11T16:40:00.000-07:00also a first time poster, i think....but long time...also a first time poster, i think....but long time lurker.<BR/><BR/>i'm so sorry.<BR/><BR/>i'm uncloaking to say.... <BR/>eventually it will get easier.<BR/>but in 'grief years', 6 months is two seconds ago.<BR/><BR/>have a hug possum,<BR/>and take care of yourself and your gorgie munchkins,<BR/>taff in sunny downtown sydney.currently in sunny downtown sydney by the seahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04031048864779777918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-23128766553547457352007-10-11T15:30:00.000-07:002007-10-11T15:30:00.000-07:00Thinking of you today.(((hugs)))Thinking of you today.<BR/><BR/>(((hugs)))Veronica Foalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05519401661788911341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-75634772920577331502007-10-11T15:25:00.000-07:002007-10-11T15:25:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry. I'm not sure what else I can say, bu...I'm so sorry. I'm not sure what else I can say, but I'm thinking of you.every tenthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09213046055722222615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-50443188340604395692007-10-11T15:23:00.000-07:002007-10-11T15:23:00.000-07:00I'm thinking of you and wishing there was somethin...I'm thinking of you and wishing there was something I could do to make your journey easier. *hug*B.E.C.K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17692965288646024168noreply@blogger.com