tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post3393313618455847094..comments2024-03-20T01:12:06.791-07:00Comments on Snickollet: DatingSnickollethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14123630374052898460noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-8544660333041194962016-05-28T06:07:35.800-07:002016-05-28T06:07:35.800-07:00I am sure this paragraph has touched all the inter...I am sure this paragraph has touched all the internet people, its really really nice paragraph on building up new blog.<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://www.phoenixareasingles.com/" rel="nofollow">Single Events</a><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12902830946652999746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-25226442653954660442008-07-06T22:47:00.000-07:002008-07-06T22:47:00.000-07:00I don't believe you'll spend the rest of your life...I don't believe you'll spend the rest of your life alone, unless you want to. <BR/><BR/>My single friends who adopted from China (as I did, so we're still emailing) say that, contrary to popular belief, kids start asking for a daddy about age 5 when they begin to notice other family structures and the daddy-daughter dances, etc. start up.<BR/><BR/>Just take your time. You'll know when you're carolinagirl79https://www.blogger.com/profile/06284212448110505029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-74506657429645931602008-06-02T13:38:00.000-07:002008-06-02T13:38:00.000-07:00Bravo for your post. I agree 100% with your decis...Bravo for your post. I agree 100% with your decision. So healthy. Don't ever let 'them' pressure you into a date. They're the same people that wonder why someone has not married yet. Nosy busybodies.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06917710277314486850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-57927028807604463262008-06-01T22:36:00.000-07:002008-06-01T22:36:00.000-07:00That's a really healthy perspective. Good for you...That's a really healthy perspective. Good for you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-31945478842942988542008-05-31T19:59:00.000-07:002008-05-31T19:59:00.000-07:00Thank you so much for writing this. It is exactly ...Thank you so much for writing this. It is exactly what I needed today, at this moment. Having a hard day. So tired. Thank you.Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05252415753817950987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-12477337699095074012008-05-31T19:27:00.000-07:002008-05-31T19:27:00.000-07:00All in good time...All in good time...amyinbchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01633627179582112435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-7393253384258343322008-05-30T20:18:00.000-07:002008-05-30T20:18:00.000-07:00Wow. I wondered about what might happen when my fa...Wow. I wondered about what might happen when my father-in-law died unexpectedly. My mother-in-law is a wonderful lady and we're lucky to have her in our sons' lives. <BR/><BR/>P.S. We'll make sure that Kim's available for a "date" soon! PaulAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-28066908427912159442008-05-30T07:17:00.000-07:002008-05-30T07:17:00.000-07:00I am only three months out. My husband and I were...I am only three months out. My husband and I were in the midst of a 10 year honeymoon when he died (I am 53 years old and this was my second marriage. Our children are grown with their own children). I was devastated. I started to go to a grief group even before he was gone a week. A fellow member of the group who lost his wife in January began to call me. I didn't answer the phone. I Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-64359754343564952732008-05-30T05:22:00.000-07:002008-05-30T05:22:00.000-07:00You'll know when you are ready and you may never b...You'll know when you are ready and you may never be. And that's okay. You should do what makes you feel good, not what would make others feel better for you.hvpia239https://www.blogger.com/profile/15283470678074979534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-20961940710533852012008-05-29T19:54:00.000-07:002008-05-29T19:54:00.000-07:00heh. I'm out there on those internet dating sites...heh. I'm out there on those internet dating sites.... fodder for funny dating stories for my blog and getting my heart stomped on is all they've been good for so far....watercolordaisyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08918878832628412824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-68099344056182462312008-05-29T17:32:00.000-07:002008-05-29T17:32:00.000-07:00Snick has always reminded me of ConanSnick has always reminded me of ConanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-74366954427501365642008-05-29T16:52:00.000-07:002008-05-29T16:52:00.000-07:00I remember reading an interview with Conan O'Brien...I remember reading an interview with Conan O'Brien a long time ago in which he was asked if he was going to find a replacement for his sidekick Andy when Andy left the show, and Conan said no--because he had never wanted a sidekick in the first place, but when me met Andy, he knew he wanted an Andy. :)<BR/><BR/>But I guess when it comes to any kind of relationship, eventually, if you're Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04587080107116858971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-11243970407242815162008-05-29T16:36:00.000-07:002008-05-29T16:36:00.000-07:00Snick,Have you ever thought about writing a book, ...Snick,<BR/>Have you ever thought about writing a book, or turning your blog into a book?<BR/>I'm just wondering what that might open up for you. You know more about it than I, that's for sure.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-13139469586758228552008-05-28T12:14:00.000-07:002008-05-28T12:14:00.000-07:00I am 9 months out on Tuesday, and find myself desp...I am 9 months out on Tuesday, and find myself desperately wishing for companionship- but knowing that I am nowhere near emotionally ready to date. Besides, like you said, how the heck could I find the time?! I also had a wonderful relationship with my husband-- he was an amazing dad-- and I just can't imagine finding someone that perfect ever again. My hope is that someday I will have moved far Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-61911677898283251962008-05-28T08:55:00.000-07:002008-05-28T08:55:00.000-07:00p.s. Gay Boyfriends are the best ever. I highly ...p.s. Gay Boyfriends are the best ever. I highly suggest we all have one (or more)! I love my gay boyfriends.mlghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00713687653466256693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-89644178718392692902008-05-28T08:51:00.000-07:002008-05-28T08:51:00.000-07:00This was such a good post. I wonder if you had pr...This was such a good post. I wonder if you had processed this all before you wrote it or processed it as you went along. So many times I start writing and end up with a huge duh! moment in the end.<BR/><BR/>Which ever it was, this is so clear and easy for me to read and understand my life a bit better.mlghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00713687653466256693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-48953187995646478132008-05-28T08:34:00.000-07:002008-05-28T08:34:00.000-07:00You have a gay number you can hang out with! I'm ...You have a gay number you can hang out with! I'm so jealous. I really need a gay boyfriend.<BR/><BR/>As for the dating thing, recently two people at work handed me the URL to an on-line dating site. They are not close friends and I actually thought it was a shitty, interfering thing to do.Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04643493643365324737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-3068771615461165062008-05-28T08:27:00.000-07:002008-05-28T08:27:00.000-07:00You are most excellent.You are most excellent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-81782496167057905802008-05-28T04:57:00.000-07:002008-05-28T04:57:00.000-07:00My mom's been a widow for 21 years. I joke with h...My mom's been a widow for 21 years. I joke with her all the time: "When are you going to find someone? Not to replace Daddy, but to take you to the grocery store so I don't have to do it every week?" But even in the midst of the joking, which is really only 1/2 joking (I'd love for my mom to be less alone), I remember when my dad died. My mom just looked at her three daughters and said, "NowKrys72599https://www.blogger.com/profile/13794562208024400426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-21681268551595237722008-05-27T23:00:00.000-07:002008-05-27T23:00:00.000-07:00It's refreshing to read a comment by someone down ...It's refreshing to read a comment by someone down to earth and clear-headed about dating, for a change. So many women I know are so desperate to get married that they'd rather settle for the wrong guy than wait for one who'll truly make them happy. I'm glad that you had a beautiful marriage with your hubby. Some people wait their whole lives and never find true love. I hope that someday you Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08996018786058827824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-87332400666515028892008-05-27T19:48:00.000-07:002008-05-27T19:48:00.000-07:00I love your honesty.I love your honesty.Googling Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16714574856837728893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-63894395928316720202008-05-27T19:05:00.000-07:002008-05-27T19:05:00.000-07:00I admire your gut level interpretation of what mus...I admire your gut level interpretation of what must be one of the toughest question a widow could hear.<BR/><BR/>I doubt I'd have the ability to look at such a question without feeling defensive and mean-spirited.<BR/><BR/>If I make it to NY this summer, I'm making a stop in MA. We can have a date night! If we get to feeling feisty, I'll take you out to a bar and you can watch me heckle people. Mouthy Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13390913450937641605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-90594143486291572012008-05-27T18:58:00.000-07:002008-05-27T18:58:00.000-07:00I have really enjoyed your most recent, in depth p...I have really enjoyed your most recent, in depth posts. I already felt like I know you IRL. We have VERY similar personalities and a lot in common right now, and I find myself nodding in agreement when I read your posts. I thank you again for sharing.<BR/><BR/>-DanishAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-79478868781216854692008-05-27T18:29:00.000-07:002008-05-27T18:29:00.000-07:00What a beautiful and honest post. Despite all thos...What a beautiful and honest post. Despite all those who so ardently care and wish happiness for you, the decision to "date" or even entertain the idea of another "special" relationship shouldn't be based on a timeline. Is "feel-line" (in a non-cat sense) a word? Keep your clear thinking -- and keep sharing your insights with us!Cheryl Lagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03368796775852338505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17626032.post-68362908521612166562008-05-27T17:25:00.000-07:002008-05-27T17:25:00.000-07:00Betty--I think you'll know if it's OK to ask. I re...Betty--<BR/><BR/>I think you'll know if it's OK to ask. I really don't mind when people ask me, but I'd guess that if you haven't asked your sister yet, perhaps you sense that she doesn't want to talk about it?<BR/><BR/>-snickSnickollethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14123630374052898460noreply@blogger.com